PERSONAL MESSAGE RESPONSE NO. 1

In response to spirit guides, you all have spirit guides. They are there with you every breath, every heartbeat, every second of your being. When you become so overwhelmed with life experiences, you do not find it easy to turn to something you cannot see. They are there. They are there for everyone. It does not matter what you have done in this life, or what you have felt or what you have said. Whatever your experiences are, your spirit guides are there for you at all times unconditionally. They are tapping on your shoulder. Just the fact that you ask about them is them trying to make you aware that they are there for you.

There are many changes that are going to take place upon earth. Many people view these changes as destructive, as negative, as tragedy. We all are brought to the earth to learn lessons. No one has more or less upon earth. It is only what you choose to make upon earth. If you would look at your earth right now you would see the changes that are taking place every day. You can make a difference. You do not have to feel hopeless or helpless for you can change your view and help change your earth.

You made a choice to come to earth. We all make those choices to come to earth. As spirit guides, we made the choice to be earth spirit guides. Those choices are to help everyone. Both as spirit guides we can grow and we can help you grow by your earthly experiences. Suicide is never the answer for you are just cutting short lessons that you could be learning upon earth. For those who do decide to cut short their earthly life by their own means the place in heaven that they go to is much like the place they chose to leave upon earth, and why is this? For that is the consciousness that you carry with you. You are given the choice and the opportunity once in heaven to leave that place and move to your heavenly family which you have waiting for you. And those that love you can help you move to that place in heaven by honoring you as being whole and letting you know they forgive your choice of suicide.

When you go to heaven after the earth life you have the reviews of what you did and you are given opportunities to understand why you did what you did from a way you never could have upon earth. God loves you no matter what you have done. Your spirit guides are with you regardless of what you have done. You make the choices. That is the freedom that God gives you and it is your choice to move both on earth and in heaven to places that you do not have to be in but have chosen to be there. You will say, "but circumstances.., but this, but that...I don't want to be here" for then it is time for you to make the choice to move from where you are. Turn to those who love you, whether it be family, extended family, to those who can understand where you are coming from and just want you to experience the beauty of your own being no matter where you are. For your own beautiful being never ceased.

Your sense of hopelessness is the choice that you have made--regardless of what happens upon this earth. Your thoughts, your decision to have placed yourself where you are, can be readily changed by the decision to see the beauty that surrounds you every second. Your feeling of hopelessness does not help move the consciousness of the earth into higher realms. Change this sense of hopelessness one step at a time by looking at the beauty of the sunset, by watching the beauty of the birth of a new day as the sun rises. Watch the flight of the birds, smell the fragrance of the flower, open your eyes to the beauty that is around you every day. One step at a time. Do not let yourself be so overwhelmed. You can move into a different place and we as spirit guides are there to help you. There is nothing that you can say or do that will ever take away the love that we feel for you but it is your responsibility to take the steps towards love and light instead of darkness. Reach out to those who are there who have been where you are for they can tell you this is a time of great growth in your life. Embrace it and accept it and move into it.

In God's terms no one is ever better. Please understand that. Heaven is the place where the experiences you have on earth help you evolve into a spiritual being much quicker than just staying in heaven all the time. You made the choice to come to earth. You made the choice to move into the light of the love that is always there for you. Remember this. There is no one greater than God for we are all one and what one feels affects all others. So as spirit guides we reach out to you and we say we know that the humans on this earth, whether they know you or not, feel your pain and are helping you to make the choice, supporting you, to move into the light. Heaven is wonderful and beautiful in words that you on earth can't understand. There is no judgment in heaven. There are levels of consciousness and understanding just as on earth there are levels of consciousness and understanding. We all start out as babies and we all grow into wise, beautiful spiritual beings, all being a part of one particular journey. Please move into the light and take your journey with ease and joy for they are there waiting for you and know that in heaven there is no judgment and there is no one greater--for you are all one on earth, just as you are all one in heaven.

We believe from your message that you have allowed yourself to move into a hellish environment right now. Why does one have to die to do that? You are experiencing that right now. Walk into a room and turn the light on, and as you walk into that room and turn the light on surrounding you in that room, know that you are turning the light on inside of yourself. You do not have to be where you are for there are those on earth who love you. Accept them without judgment. Accept their love without judgment. Accept yourself without judgment. No one is here to judge you. God does not judge you. Only you do. Move from that judgment to acceptance, move from that environment of darkness to light, knowing that there are many, many, many people who are there loving you and supporting you right now who are asking you to reach out and feel their love and feel their support. There are those on earth who will do that for you, there are those in spirit who do that for you. It is your choice of whether you wish to turn to them or not.

PERSONAL MESSAGE RESPONSE NO. 2

First of all, this is our spirit guides speaking. They would just like to say, thank you to the person for their words of gratitude regarding the information that has been communicated to those of you upon earth. We hope that it continues to help her and many others.

Regarding her life partner who has made her crossing-over, as you know if you have read the suicide information, those that have remained upon earth after those who have crossed-over from suicide can help very much in the releasing and the spirit of the other being able to move forward. So please let your loved one know that you have forgiven and that you are moving forward in life with the memories of love and joy that you have shared together. Because you have known from other times with your partner that her wishes were for you to release these ashes, we feel that it would be beneficial to both of you to follow through upon that request. It does no harm for you to have them in your presence but unless you are deeply depressed and holding on to the one that you loved through these remains which, as you appear to know, is not where she is at all, we recommend that you look at what her wishes had been at a previous time and release those ashes with much gratitude, with much love and appreciation for all that you have shared with this woman.

As you release the remains feel both of you being set free and having less constraints upon your life here on this earth and her spirit life on the other side. Feel the freedom permeating yourself of experiencing the joy and help in any way that you know in your personal relationship with your loved one of helping her to be released from the energy of cutting one's life short upon this earth. Move forward in spirit and in love.

PERSONAL MESSAGE RESPONSE NO. 3

When spirits cross over to the other side they have many things to adjust to from their earth life. And when loved ones down here are in such an extreme state of grief, it makes it difficult for the loved one who crossed over to be able to continue their journey without being held back by such extreme grief.

By even thinking of committing suicide your father is quite distraught for you and knows that this is not the thing to do. If you love your father so much, then do not have this thought for this is a thought of pure selfishness and your father is very frightened for you. If you follow through with such an act you would not be achieving your goal anyway. You would not be able to see your father as you wish to see him and you would create extreme, extreme sorrow and grief for those on this side as well as those who have already crossed over.

This is not an answer to what you are looking for. The love that you feel for your father, the love that your father felt for you will always be with you. It is there right now and your father is saddened to see that you are in the place that you are and just know that what you are considering doing is just a pure selfish act and the pain that it will bring to so many--you have the opportunity to move into a happier place in your life right now and you should do so with the fond and beautiful memories that you have shared with your father. And to continue the love that he gave you in your life so that you may bring that love to others.

When you commit suicide you are not creating an act that just involves you, you are involving many, many people and hurting and causing pain. This is not the answer to your problem. The answer to your problem is to open your heart up in love and feel the love that your father is living in you right now and will always be there. You will see your father in many things all through your life and you will look at those things with great joy and great pleasure and great love. And so if you continue with this thought process you will never be able to touch that love again, even in this life or the other life. This is not the answer to what you are looking for. You will not reach your father in the state that you think you would. That is all.